Okay,
I finally came to terms with being Transgender a few years back, right? So, a few months ago I decided to talk to a few trans people as well, you know, to get support and help? Well, I talk with mainly two, my best friend, and another close friend whom I met the previous year.
So, I came out to my mother a few weeks back, almost a month. So, my computer got a virus so I haven’t been getting internet access, meaning, no Facebook and no communication with my friends. Normally, there is no problem in that, but, my phone got stolen, so I have had no communication with any of them. And I do not go to school, as I am homeschooled, or homebound, for the rest of this year, due to depression.
So, my mother used her computer, which I am not allowed on, and talked to my friend, and said if he dared talk to me again she would take him to court. Because he is 18 and I am a minor. plus, she blames my being trans on him.
When I tried to talk with her about it, she said ’she is influencing you’ and that ‘ SHE will take you’ and stuff. But, I met her face to face, remember? And she yelled at me for refering to HIM as a male,due to him being a transman.
So, I decided to follow what she always taught me. I will follow what I believe in, and do what I think is right, no matter if every one else thinks I am wrong. So I am messaging him.
But, is this the right way to do this? I feel so guilty, and just am constantly having that feeling of something just pulling you down, being sad, just wanting to cry.
I am on my father’s computer, by the way.


lol you people being trans and gay and stuff, sheesh! why u complicate your only life with all those commercial stuff u see on tv. be normal and live like a normal person and enjoy this damn life. what ur doing will make u miserable, you’ll understand someday
I think if you’re 100% sure you are a trans-gender because you want to be and it’s not anything to do with your 18 year old friend then you should just keep on doing what you’re doing and your mum will soon come to terms with it:) what age are you btw?
well sad that your mums like that but do want u want to do u cant get become sad cause of one person
well, your mom may tell you to do what you feel is right, but she doesn’t mean it when it goes against what she thinks is right. strange, but true. but i think you should do what your heart says. she can’t do anything to the transman unless transman tries to have sex with you. communication is not illegal. moms get crazy about this stuff. maybe you can get some counseling about how to deal with her. one hopes she’ll come around someday soon, but it may take a while. ’til then you need the support of your friends. good luck.