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Stay With Him With Ultimatums, Or Break It Off?

By mobile virus Posted in: phone virus

I am trying to decide if this relationship is work my time. We have been living together for 18 months. Last year, he was texting his ex-wife (no kids together) quite a bit. I didn’t have any issue if they were and would ask what she was doing. He told me repeatedly that he never texted her. I saw phone records later that disproved that. After other issues, I moved out. Moved back in and have had further issues. I asked him to lock his phone records but don’t like that I don’t know if he is being honest with me.
2 months ago, he didn’t come home all night. Said he fell asleep at a friends house but a receipt I found showed he actually drove the opposite direction right before he would have gone there. He refused to let me see his phone texts the next day til after he deleted whatever was there.
I want an honest and open relationship. I want to be able to trust him, but don’t. I feel dumb asking for the phone records again, but don’t feel that I can trust him. A virus posed as a keylogger was on the computer. He blamed me…then went and changed all his passwords again from a different computer. I feel kind of like he is keeping me out as far as possible. But maybe I am just being insecure. Should I demand openess, leave, or just let it go?

  1. MrNiceGu Says

    If he’s going to be sneaky then he should not be trusted. Leave him and let him be alone with his ex and his computer. You deserve much better than that. Go and find a good man that’s not sneaky and be happy with your life. Goodluck!

  2. MrSchues Says

    Plenty of fish in the sea, Give him a chance if he blows it.. get rid

  3. free_ang Says

    Dump him quickly. He’s not worth the hassles.

  4. megalith Says

    Kid you need to get out of that relationship and never look back, unless your a needy little girl who thinks she will never find another man, then stay. But you are being played like a stupid fiddle. If it quacks like a duck honey.

  5. King H Says

    Sounds to me that this relationship is over. When are you going to see that?
    BTW, ultimatums are the quickest way to end a relationship. They NEVER work. If that’s the way you want to end it quicker then by all means do so.

  6. Kenny Ken Says

    I say break it off. The evidence is there. You trusted him to start and he’s given you nothing but reasons not to. An honest, open, trust filled relationship is not too much to ask for, and it seems like you’ll never have that with him again.
    I hope this helps.

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